I am very excited that a new Dungeon opened in Brooklyn. In the heart of Downtown, within walking distance of the Barclay Center. It was much needed. I have found a new home and will be working along side a Goddess. Yes, Goddess Venus Cuffs as part of House of Venus. So go to my Contact page on my website to find out how to book a session. I am officially open for business...
Shoe Fetish…. From the Top or Bottom…I have always held a certain reverence for high-heeled shoes. Like wearable sculptures, they are the one accessory that can turn any woman (or man) no matter race, age or size into someone extraordinary and alluring. For me they add height, and at 5ft tall I at times really appreciate that. But they also elongate the body, accentuate the calf muscles and immediately add sex appeal to any outfit. From CEO to porn star; they are the one thing we can wear that immediately transforms us.
If you are a bottom, then they can be more slender and delicate, like strappy open toe heels, or trashy like clear acrylic mules (make sure they have pink feathers).
For the Top it’s more likely to be platforms with extremely high stiletto heels, spikes, black , closed toe heels. Leather or vinyl all with severe angles. The better to stomp and kick the bottom with…
Is it any wonder that heels are a major fetish… To collect them, and to relish them is one of my main loves.
Now to only be able to afford Louboutins… a girl can dream…
If you think that beauty is just some natural phenomena that happens and doesn't take time, effort and most of all money. You are a fool.
Yes, there is natural beauty, but when we are speaking of beauty as profession, like Pro Domme.. we need the ourfits, the pedicures, the hair cut and colored. We need facials, and make up galore, We need waxing, and of course deep tissue massage cause well beauty is tiring.
So it's our expense. And we do it for ourselves, but we do it cause it pays off in the end as well.
Such delicate small feet I have.. size 6 with the tiniest of toes. Smaller than most men's hands. But yet they are my pride and power. It's were most men should be, underneath my foot. Held in place, kicked, smothered and trampled. It's the lowest a man can go, lying on the ground at my feet. You can go no lower. Most men deserve to be there.
Spanking or Over the Knee is one of those simple overlooked activities for a scene. To me it offers an intimate connection, a more controlled impact experience, and the opportunity to explore vunerablility.
A good scene starts with a warm up, a slow caressing of the ass, progressively turning into a heavier massage. This helps relax, build trust and blood flow to the area. It also creates a bit of arousal, a lovely state to start any impact scene. Next comes the slow rhythmic open handed slaps, that merge into massages. Once warmed up your bottom can start taking the heavier blows. Think of it as music, with a slow build up to crescendo. Having music playing that goes along with your rhythm is a great idea as well. At some point, the really heavy, fast blows come. After a hard hit, take the time to let the bottom process, slowly caressing the area before starting in again. I also enjoy unexpected hits outside the area, like thighs, or upper back. I may also press my body against their's to ground them and dominate them. A slow wind down includes and ends with gentle rubs and caresses. And ends with whatever aftercare was negotiated.
I had a lovely time at a party last night, meeting new people who are on the milder side of the kink scene. I'd refer to them as the sex positive burner crowd. They were very friendly and inviting. I talked with a beautiful lady with white blonde hair and asked if she wanted a spanking. I had no toys with me since I was there with a date. We went out on the rooftop. It was full of beds and benches. An inflatable pool with not water was set up and was being used as a cuddle corner. I escorted my bottom to a bench and started my negotiation. She seemed a bit surprised at my thoughtfulness at making sure I understood her limits, I asked whether sexual contact was permitted, and how much. And her safewords.. But as our first time together, I knew I was not going to go full force.
I always start any impact with a warm up... usually a tender massage to the area, then a build up to a more aggressive kneading of the flesh... Rubs, and squeezing followed by more gentler caresses. It creates tension while also building a connection with your partner. "I am here to give you pleasure if I want, but don't forget I am here to inflict pain. Give in at this moment and let me lead the way". This is the message any good impact scene should send.
After the warm up was a combination of light but rhythmic spanks, followed by very aggressive poundings. Then the assertive and dominating pressing of my whole body against hers, This is to help her slow down and process the more heavy blows, It also lets her know I am there on top, Don't try to runaway.. You are mine..
If was a fun little scene.. and reminds me you don't always need a whole toy bag to have a good kink scene.
Plants can be delicate, vicious, sweet to eat or deadly in ounces. Here is a list of some of the worlds deadliest plants.
I read the Torture Garden several times over the years and it is one of my favorite books. Read it to see why: